Maybe you’re like me and the thought of a big, elaborate wedding is the last thing you would ever do. You’ve seen friends and relatives get up in tornado’s of wedding plans and problems, from guest lists to venues, entertainment, and even finding the right officiants. They put up with squabbling parents and more friends with unwanted opinions than there are grains of sand on the beach at Waikiki. Their stress levels went through the roof. They were miserable throughout the entire process. And any happiness they planned on having seemed to get sucked out of the room like an astronaut blown out of a space capsule with an asteroid strike!